Is it really that hard to find a genuine person ? I am finding it hard to find that tiny bit of genuineness in people as I grow older. People fake emotions. Faking conversation was like a usual story but adding fake emotion to their beautiful real emotion is new to me. I have always tried to surround myself with people with real-ness and truthful-ness in them. The funny part of the story of my life is some people think I trust them completely that I fail to realise the real emotions from the fake ones. I can't generalise maybe.. I did have friends who were genuine but time kept adding fakeness in them little by little . So , technically the real culprit is time.
I wouldn't call myself 100% real, but I might be the real-est person I know since I find it really hard to hide and fake my emotions from me (excluding babies obviously).Maybe that's the case with everyone else too. People reserve the real part of them for themselves and not anybody else. They just encrypt it in such a manner that the only key that exist is a private one. Complex humans and their even more complex emotions!. I have noticed a character in people --they find it difficult to praise someone who share the same qualities as them but easily accept someone with qualities they know they don't possess. Hence they fake that smile and words of acceptance. People listen so that they get a chance to speak at the end of it. Information overload has made everyone a know-it-all. Earlier ears were used more than tongue and now it's the reverse . We just fake to listen when what we want in real is to speak . Now instead of seeking genuineness in people what I try to do is to weigh the realness with fakeness in a person and then when the former weighs more , I call them my friend. Who said learning mathematics was a waste of time! It truly helps now.
Keeping it real-ingly
An.
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